Prior to the launch of CommonTruce.com, I started posing relationship/dating questions to my Facebook and Instagram followers. Genese Jamilah, Owner of I DON’T DO CLUBs emailed me a photo of a woman wearing a sign on her back that read,
I just came here to find a husband.
Genese thought this would be a good topic of discussion, however, I needed more information about the woman and her reason for wearing the sign.
Then earlier this week, this mysterious woman was again pushed back into my view.
Genese later informed me that there was an article written about the “sign lady,” Ayana Evans. It provided some answers to questions that anyone would normally ask.
The article introduced me to familiar woman whom every man will eventually meet in the dating arena.
So, let me create a scenario.
Men have changed their outlook on the social scene. Nowadays, we attend day parties on the weekends to hang out. The sound of food, a couple brews and being a part of a nice setting is music to our ears. Don’t be mistaken— women play heavily into the mix!There’s nothing like scanning a room full of beautiful women.
If there is one that interest us, we make eye contact with her, initiate conversation, exchange numbers then “SWISH”… NEXT!
It’s almost as though men take the form of Kobe Bryant and go trigger-happy. As long as we hit those routine jumpers and a few from beyond the arch, we will find our groove. Things turn into a NBA Jam session as you catch fire while you run point and your homie plays center.
So imagine, you and your boy are 26 of 32 from the field. Pushing up the court, you rebound the ball motioning for a fast break. You eye a woman from afar then go full speed her way. You pass the rock to your boy and determine your approach as you position yourself for an easy dunk.
As he lofts the ball up, you catch glimpse of her back and notice a sign reading . . .
WHAAAAA . .?!?! TIMEOUT!!
Part 2: Coming Soon . . .